How to read the most common relationship loop, reduce shame, and create a practical exit pathWhy this is the most common patternWhen one partner seeks closeness and reassurance, and the other seeks space and calm, a spiral starts:The more one pushes, the more the other shuts down.The more the other shuts down, the more the first pushes.The problem is not who is right.The problem is the system entering threat mode.Professional goal:Turn it from "Who are you?" into "What happens between us?"How to...